Nancy Drew Made Me Kinky

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Kinky: Nancy Drew, George and Bess kidnapped and bound

Delving Into My Kinky Psychology

I don’t take being a kinky person for granted. It isn’t enough for me to say, “Yeah, I am a kinkster, there you go” and leave it at that. I want to know all the whys and the wherefores, I want to unravel the puzzle and figure out what it is that makes me tick the the way I do.

And in thinking about what influences shaped me into the person that I am today, I realize that Nancy Drew actually had a fairly large hand in it. Yes, Nancy Drew. As a child, I *loved* the Nancy Drew series. I read every one of the books I could get my little hands on, and was continually raiding the local library for fresh material. Eventually my mother noticed I was plowing going through 3 or more of them in a single day. “Rain, I had no idea you were such a fast reader!” she would exclaim proudly, certain she had sired some super eight-year-old genius child.

I didn’t have the heart to tell her that I was only reading the good part in each book before casting it aside. I would flip open to the table of contents, locate the chapter where Nancy Drew gets kidnapped and tied up and eagerly read that chapter before moving on to the next book. Of course I was easily getting through 3 of them daily.

Did Nancy Enjoy It Rough?

Nancy Drew seemed to have a hankering for rough trade. That nubile 16 year old girl spent a fair amount of her time getting repeatedly captured, kidnapped, tied up, chloroformed and choked out. This happened in almost every book and I would linger over the chapter, stewing in a muddle of “funny feelings” that my eight year old self couldn’t properly grasp. All I knew was that I really *really* liked that part of the book.

And don’t even get me started on the “Archie” comics. Those things were a training manual for poly relationships. Archie was dating both Betty and Veronica at the same time and I loved it. My favorite issues were the ones where a new girl would enter the picture and Betty and Veronica would join forces to drive her off because they didn’t want someone messing with “their” man. The idea of sharing a man with another woman brought up those “funny feelings” again.

I Was Born Kinky!

Looking at the path my life has taken, it all makes sense now. I think about these kind of “warning signs” that were letting me know who I am as a person before I even knew the words for it. Kinky people are BORN kinky, we can no more help it then a gay or transgender person can help being wired the way they are. Sure, a gay person could marry someone of the opposite sex, sire children and go through their life while quietly suffering and denying who they are, but they will always be gay underneath the denial. And a kinky person can put the kink on a shelf, go vanilla and tell themselves it doesn’t really matter.

But it DOES matter. You are denying who you are and will never truly be content in that vanilla situation that you are telling yourself is “good enough”. You will never be content until you accept who you are and how you are wired. I live my life exactly the way I want, with no shame or apologies to anyone, and I couldn’t be happier. Try it, I assure you it is highly recommended!

Keep it Kinky My Friends,
RDG

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I hadn’t really ever thought of it, but there were some seriously kinky moments in Nancy Drew. I remember one where some thugs tackled Nancy and put a hood on her, just to intimidate her, then left her in a parking lot. Of course she couldn’t breath through it, since the fabric was nonporous, so it described her slowly passing out. Of course she was rescued right before anything serious happened, and bounced right back. Odd how that sticks in my mind after thirty-plus years. Thanks for bringing back memories.
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I am not popular in my town or the schools I went to, but a lot of people know who I am. I have been kinky since I hit puberty. I waited until I was around 22 to really start experimenting. I was dating a guy from work in 2005 and he had toys and loved to spank me. He also was the first person to flog me (while being chained to the ceiling) and I found out that I can really take a hit! Especially on the butt. One time I was bruised on my butt for a week… Read more »

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Thanks Rain. I’ve been at a crossroads between two girls that are both great but one thinks that faults me for being disturbed when I look at a site such as kink, whereas the other has been interested in it on her own. I had almost forgot how important it is to be with someone who is sexually compatible in the head as well as in the loins. And as an aside, thank you for giving pussy spankings the style and prominence that such a fun activity deserves! Every submissive should be so lucky as to have your complexion, wow… Read more »

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This completely makes sense to me and describes how I have felt my entire life. I do dabble some in the kink world but not to the degree I would like. My spouse is not a kinky person, in fact she say’s “she does not mind it” but does not relish it as I do. It is hard living this way, but I do not want to destroy something for my own selfish being. Does that make sense?