It is harder for women…
Being alone, bored and horny is a dangerous combination for anyone, male or female. The internet is an amazing resource that increases your interaction potential by staggering amounts that previous generations could not possibly begin to comprehend. It used to be you were largely limited by the available pool of pussy in your town or city. Now you can talk to people all over the world! And there is SO much pussy on the internet. Pussy that doesn’t seem to be wearing that much clothing, pussy that seems to be gagging for your cock, pussy that is just hanging around waiting for your Magic Peen to come by and grace it with your presence.
So you do the easiest thing in the world. You shoot out an email like “ u r hottt!” or “wanna fuk?” or “sexxy! can i cum over?” (These are all word for word emails that I have received over the years BTW) without taking the time to see if that pussy is even looking for fresh dick and are shocked, SHOCKED that the cock starved pussy dancing in front of your face doesn’t immediately take you up on your generous offer. So shocked that you start yelling at the pussy, calling it fat or ugly or fake or secretly a guy. (All things that have been said to me. Evidently I am actually an ugly fat guy. Fooled ya!!)
Let’s break down what went wrong. All you have succeeded in doing is pissing off the pussy and making it more cynical and guarded. A wave of low grade hostility spreads. The pussy is that much more unapproachable to the next email that comes along. They are tired of being hassled and yelled at. Nobody wins.
Look. I get being horny. Believe me, I do. While a guy will NEVER truly be understand what it is like to go through life as a woman, I am going to attempt to explain it a little. It is so much more risky for women to meet up with men online that words will never do it true justice, but I am going to do my best.
A woman risks pregnancy from a sexual encounter. This makes her much less likely to cheerfully jump on the eager cock that shows up perkily in her inbox all ready for action. While there are steps, from condoms to the pill to abortions, the risk of pregnancy in a sexual encounter make a woman less likely to spread it like peanut butter.
Even in this day and age, there is a double standard. If a guy gets a lot of action, he is a stud. If a woman wholeheartedly explores her sexuality, she is a slut and a whore. Knowing the judgment that comes with an active sexual life doesn’t make a woman super inclined to jump on your dick just because it is available.
And lastly, and most importantly, imagine that what you have to fuck is stronger then you and can overwhelm you at any time. Historically, the worst thing that ever happens to women is men. I am in no way saying that women do not murder and dish out domestic violence, but try and picture that what you have to put your dick in can overpower and rape you anytime it feels like. Imagine turning on the TV, reading the newspapers, and seeing endless accounts of men’s bodies being found in rivers and empty fields. Imagine knowing a huge percentage of your friends that have been raped and hassled in countless ways, and it happens all the time, everywhere you look. It would make you somewhat less likely to just run over and thrust your cock in that pussy just because it says “available and ready big boy!”
So yes, women are going to want to talk to you for more then one email. They are going to be reluctant to give out their phone number. They have a hell of a lot more to lose then you do, and their survival instinct over millennia of dealing with males doesn’t make them much inclined to jump in their car and drive over to your house just because you emailed them a photo of your dick.
If you don’t rush them, if you don’t insult them, if you take the time to actually read a profile and see if they are even looking fresh dick in their life, if you show interest in them as a person as a whole, I promise that your internet experience will be a lot more pleasant.