Just imagine…

Imagine having me for a sister-in-law and having NO idea who I am or what I do. Imagine thinking of me as your slightly odd, all black wearing, vegetarian sister-in-law from California, but having zero clue of the fervor and dedication of my entire life to all things kinky.

I met the boy when I was very young. We were both working at a book store and he picked me up in the philosophy section, where we bonded over a mutual distaste of Sartre’s “Being and Nothingness”. I moved in 3 weeks later and the rest is history. He has been with me for every step of my journey, never judging, always accepting and supportive of my life choices.

“Hey, I am actually kinky and want to explore that a bit.”

“Ok”

“Hey I am actually bisexual, no pansexual, and want to explore that a bit.”

“Ok”

“Hey I am actually kinky enough that I might want to try some fetish modeling, but don’t worry, I will never ever do any boy/girl stuff.”

“Actually, I am going to do some select boy/girl after all.’

“Ok”

“Hey I am actually poly and I want to explore that a bit.”

“Ok”

This isn’t to make it seem like he is a total passive pushover, far from it. He is a very strong and confident person. He just bought the ticket and is taking the ride. It takes a strong person to hang with me and the way I approach this journey called life.

We even ended up married and buying a house together, not that I stayed at the house 7 days a week or anything. I am much more of a feral cat as opposed to a lap dog, but whenever I came home I always felt welcome. We made it work. He never let his family know my…proclivities, as far as they knew I was just one of those wacky CA girls raised by hippies that was not down with the meat eating. They are clueless as to what exactly I get up to on the internet. Everything was all well and good until this week, when the in laws decided to come out and visit for the very first time. Bringing with them my 18 month old nephew.

I have never had a baby in my house before. My house seems to be a bristling trap full of bricks, sharp objects and glass spice containers placed way too low. I have hidden all things kinky. I think. But I am sure there is something I have forgotten. My dog also has managed to develop her very first UTI and has completely lost all bladder control. The hose house reeks of pee and my poor dog is in diapers. The in laws will be at my house for a full 9 days, while I pretend to not be kinky and have to come home faithfully every single night, dodging the dirty dog diapers and scattered children’s toys. I am quite certain the effort in maintaining a vanilla mask for such an extended period of time is going to make my kinky little head implode.

Wish me luck. I am going to need it.

The scissors and the cherry blossoms

The winter was finally over and spring was making itself known all over the city. Well, as much as spring can in a city like San Francisco, a place that specializes in the business of cold and grey. It was not the sort of spring that would impress anyone born in the South, but WE were excited. Petals from the blooming cherry trees drifted and collected in small random piles on sidewalks all across the city.

I had been invited to an art event that night and I entered the gallery full of anticipation for the night of bondage decadence that was about to go down. One of the very first things I noticed on entering was the dozens of scissors dangling from the gallery ceiling. If you stood up on your tip toes and stretched your arm above you as high as you could, you could just reach them. There was a veritable forest of dangling sharpness above our heads.

The night was as fun as I had hoped, with various local bondage artists showcasing their skills. I caught up with old friend and made new ones, enjoying the chance to be among my fellow kinksters. And then it was Midori’s turn to perform. The music started, loud and jarring with a frantic pace. She burst out in full heavy kumadori makeup and a kimono, her face twisting in grotesque and passionate grimaces in time with the music.

Grabbing a hidden ball of yarn, she tied one end to the large wooden support pillar located in the center of the gallery and then started ducking and dodging through the packed gallery. It was so crowded it was hard to see her progress, it was only by tracking the tiny ripple as the crowd shifted for her that you could locate where she was. She would fight her way back to the pillar, looping the yarn around and then working through the crowd again. When the ball of yarn ended, she tied on a second one and kept going.

Midori was building up a spiderweb, and we were all the flies contained inside it. As she made more and more passes through the crowd to the pillar and back again, the strings that bound us all together got bigger and thicker. The bound crowd shifted as one unit as she increased the tension, and all the while the frantic music pounded. It was the most bondage I had ever seen, and it was all accomplished with a few balls of yarn.

And then she just abruptly walked out the gallery front door in full makeup and kimono onto the busy San Francisco streets, still carrying her yarn in one hand. She had never uttered a single word. The crowd was entangled and entrapped in the heavy yarn cocoon, uncertain what to do. We couldn’t get out if we had tried. I was the first person to shift, reaching up and ripping down one of the hanging pairs of scissors. I had been sure that they would somehow come in handy in the course of the night.

Moving swiftly, I cut myself free and went for the door. A woman in a bright kimono and painted up as a demon while carrying a large ball of yarn would have been immediately noticeable, but when I got outside she was nowhere to be seen. I looked down and picked up the trail, following the yarn she had left behind her. The yarn winded the entire length of a city block, rounding a corner. I continued on the trail. After another half block the yarn ended abruptly in the middle of the sidewalk, the end half buried in the drifting piles of cherry blossom petals. It was as if she had suddenly vanished, whisked by the bondage gods while in mid-stride.

I never found out if she had a car hidden nearby, or a waiting ride. Maybe she got lucky with a taxi? They had to of picked her up and whisked her away on the spot, as it hadn’t taken me that long to cut myself free, but my god what an exit she had pulled off.

I never looked at yarn again without thinking of giant bondage spiders and cherry blossoms, nor was I was ever able to figure out how a bondage legend managed to make herself disappear in the heart of the city.

Marica Hase: Face of an angel, loins of a pervert

Marica Hase has the face of an angel and the heart of a complete pervert. And can only speak a few words of English. She is 32 and looks 12. You KNOW she has to be a complete and utter pervert, as there could be no other reason someone would leave Japan and travel half way cross the world to come to a country where they doesn’t speak the language and fuck for a living. It takes a special breed to say, “I don’t know the language, the food is different, everybody looks different, I am going to get lost easy, but I need to do the porns in America!” And she did just that.

Shooting with Marica is always interesting because you can’t really hold a conversation with her. There is a lot of smiles and giggles, and she has a heart of gold, and she loves the dick. That is about all you have to work with. I picked her up at the airport for her shoot and she was in her full Lolita gear, looking underage as heck. If I hadn’t already seen her ID and known she was in her 30s, I wouldn’t think she was legal to shoot. Naturally, she was clutching her Hello Kitty phone.

“Hello!” she giggled. “Bondage! Excited! Matt!”

Matt Williams was the director she had worked with before, and he is a master of his craft. He doesn’t even like to do wax play, he thinks it looks silly and doesn’t work well on camera, but he is a giver and completely adapted his usual style to do a traditional Japanese Shibari bondage style shoot, complete with red wax candle play. Marica had loved it. She was in rope slut heaven and it probably reminded her of her homeland. It took me months to get all of the red wax out of our studio ropes and they looked like they had chicken pox. Like I said, Matt is a giver.

“No Matt” I said. “He is sick today, I am really sorry.”

“Oh!”

“It is Jack instead.”

“Oh.”

“He is….um…really big, just so you know ahead of time.”

“Oh…”

Her face fell, and I could sense her tiny Japanese pussy doing an involuntary spasm of panic. To say Jack Hammer is big is an understatement. If he lost a leg in a motorcyle accident he could use his dick as a back up leg. If burglars broke into his house he could use his dick as a baseball bat to beat them unconscious. His dick is just stupid big. It doesn’t even make any sense. Whenever you see it flop out of his pants, even if you have seen it a hundred times before, you stop what you are doing for a moment in sheer awe. I could understand Marica’s reservations. It is tough to bring such a tiny pussy to the table when Jack Hammer is what you have to work with.

The shoot actually went just fine, what made the day so memorable was what happened after the shoot. Porn follows very strict codes of professionality. All the sexy times happens when the camera is rolling. The second the camera turns off, all the clothes go on and there is no touching. Anyone that thinks that porn sets are just rampant, unbridled orgies all over the place at all times with lines of coke laid out on hot asses would be sadly disappointed. Sexual harassment can happen anywhere, even on a porn set, and businesses are strict with that sort of thing. Cameras off? No touchy.

Marica had been tied up for the entire shoot and it can be rather hard to see things, even if she could certainly feel it. When the shoot was over, I could see something was on her mind. Approaching Jack tentatively, like a person not wanted to startle a shy deer, she gestured at his groin area and whispered, “Can I…see?”

Jack paused for a second and then said “Sure” and unzipped his pants, taking out the tackle. It flopped impressively half way down his leg.

“OOOHHH!” said Marica, jumping back involuntarily for a second, her eyes widening before crouching down on the floor in front of him to get a closer look, her childlike face frozen in wonder and awe. “Can I…touch?” Her hand hovered, not daring to land.

Jack chuckled. “Go for it.”

Marica picked up the log reverently, cupping it in her tiny little paws and stroking it, half in shock, half completely impressed with herself. It was as if she could not believe it was actually real.

All the while I was dying in the corner. Only in porn would you ask permission to touch a dick you had spent all day fucking. Although to be fair, her hands had been tied up all day and this was the first time she HAD ever touched it.

A photo for reference

A photo for reference

Why I accidentally became a porn star

I never meant to have my butthole plastered all over the world. I never meant for millions of people to know exactly what my labia looks like, both inner and outer. I am an accidental porn star. Quite simply, I became a professional naked person because it was the safest way for me to live out my fantasies, to live them out in such a way that I never would of gotten to do if I had remained a civilian, no matter how kinky and perverse and hedonistic that civilian might be.

Don’t believe me? Let me run an example by you. Say it is your fondest desire to experience a gangbang. The idea of being stuffed full of cock in every hole with extra cock available for your greedy little hands is such a turn on you find yourself drooling a little at the mere thought of it. You must, you need, you CRAVE that experience. So you go to set one up.

First the scheduling is a nightmare. Tom is free on Tuesday but there is no way he can do Weds. Jack is ONLY available on Weds. Matt can’t do it this week, but is available next week, when both Tom and Jack are out of town. And then can you guarantee that everyone going to show up STD free? With the papers to prove it? Those tests run up to $250 a pop. Is everyone willing to shell out $250 to get in on that gangbang? And are they even going to be able to perform once they get there? Or is it going to be a forest of limp and flaccid cock and a bunch of guys staring shamefacedly at their toes? And are they going to be reasonably attractive? Or is it going to be a 350 pound guy named Bubba with a hairy back that has not seen the business end of soap in over a week enthusiastically trying to cram his weenie up your butthole?

Wow. That gangbang sounds like a damn nightmare now, doesn’t it? Whereas if I were to do one on film, I know for a fact everyone will show up, everyone will be able to perform, everyone has clean paperwork and is going to easy on the eyes to boot. Being a professional naked person gives me opportunities that I would never in a million years be able to experience otherwise.

In the course of my career I have been suspended upside down on a sybian, lowered into a 10 foot tank of water and cum upside down while attached to a respirator. I have been crucified on the side of a mountain and flogged with stinging nettles while the sun set majestically in front of me, covering my oiled body with its last rays. I have had my head completely buried under ground, with only my body and ass exposed, pinned down with stakes, as a man dressed like a giant raven molested me.

None of these incredible experiences would of likely been available to be if I had not chosen to step in front of a camera. You need a crew of multiple people and planning and equipment and knowledge to pull off stunts like that. I am a professional stunt person. I just do all of my stunts naked.

In porn, every single day is Halloween. You get to play dress up, look amazing in the hair and makeup provided, be in the coolest and most unusual situations, fool around with the hottest people and have the best sex on the planet. In the SAFEST of all possible circumstances. These people are professionals.

You can see after experiences like this going to my local dungeon or swingers club where Sir Lord McFloggypants or Studs McGee tried to impress me with the size of their flogger or dick would do diddlysquat for me.

I don’t regret a minute of it, It has been the wildest, most exciting ride of my life. My only regret is that I did not start on this particular path of perversion sooner.

Keep it kinky my friends!
xox
Rain

IF I hadn’t had the courage to set in front of a camera, it is highly unlikely I would of been able to experience any of these amazing things.

My head buried underground in "The Dig" for Hogtied

My head buried underground in “The Dig” for Hogtied

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waterfallforthedigonhogtied

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waterplaywithcydforhardtied

upsidedownforfearthewoodsman

Evidently I do not exist aka shades of grey

I know, I know, right? Shocking. Here I was thinking I was a real person and everything, but I have the audacity of not only being bisexual but a switch to boot. And evidently there is no such thing. As a bisexual, I am just confused and haven’t properly made up my mind yet. And as a switch, I am a submissive that hasn’t accepted her place. You haven’t heard the joke that a switch just needs to be properly switched until she accepts that she is actually submissive? I have. Repeatedly. It isn’t quite as hilarious as those Doms might think.

Have you MET me?! Do I come across as submissive?! What really chaps my ass is that it tends to be het male “Doms” pontificating that all women are truly submissive and the ones that don’t admit it just need to thumped around a bit until their senses are joggled into place.

Telling me that switches don’t “really” exist plunges you right into my least favorite place-The One Twu Way Land. Back the fuck up my friend. I know that this might come as a shock, but there is no ONE TRUE WAY. None. Take a minute to let that sink in. Those people over there loudly informing you that the way you do your kink is wrong? Who are they? Have they written the BDSM 101 handbook? No, they most certainly have not. Let them run their mouths, but don’t let them have the slightest effect on you and how you explore your kinks.

While men also get grief for daring to switch, there is a special level of distain leveled at women who identify as switches or Dommes. As if women are not truly capable of being anything other then submissive, and those that dare claim otherwise just need to be put properly in their place. Well, One Twu Way Uber Dommy McDompants, wrap your brain around the fact that women can Dom, and Dom well. What are you trying to distract from with your bombastic claims that women can’t Dom? What sort of insecurity are you desperately trying to cover up?

Well let me lay this one out for you my friend: We are ALL bisexual switches. Yup. Every single one of us on this planet. Sexuality is not black and white, one or the other, it is shades of grey. You are not just in one camp or the the opposite camp, it is a sliding scale. We are all on that scale somewhere. The most uber male het macho Dommy Dom might be 99% on the scale of straight Dom, but there is a 1% of a bi switch hiding in there, even if they will never admit it. Nothing is absolute. The most groveling slavey slave that wants someone else to be in control at all times has at least 1% of a switch in them. They have to or they would be dead. You have to be able to take care of yourself to at least a certain degree, this planet is too rough on you otherwise.

So by all means, run your mouth about how I don’t exist. Tell me I am confused. Say I just don’t know my place yet. Thank you for preemptively letting me know that you are someone I won’t wish to engage with, in any way. Thank you for cluing me into your character so that I can give you a wide berth. But in the middle of the night, when you get a quick flashback of that time you and your childhood friend Timmy once touched each other in your naughty places and then never spoke of it again, think of me. And know I am right. Bi switches the lot of you!

Voracious

Recently I had the privilege of working with the legendary John Stagliano on Voracious 2, the second part of his vampire series. I have been in awe of him since he created “Fashionistas” and had always wanted to work with him. I was beyond pleased when I got cast as a bitchy and driven Mother Superior nun.

The SFW trailer has come out and I got to do a little acting. Well, I tried at any rate. I ad-libbed this whole monologue on the spot and had a blast.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cLVvDBBsenw&feature=youtu.be&app=desktop

Why?

Why do you do it Rain? Why do you subject yourself to all those things? Quite honestly, they seem pretty harsh. What do you get out of it?

I seek to be stripped away to a rawer, more primal and honest state of being. I seek to quiet the voices in my head. I seek to find my Zen. And for me, it is in the the heavier, deeper realms of BDSM that I find my honest self.

As of late I have been working with Alebeard who, to me, stands out as a true artist of pain. This is a man that can help you find your zen. I can not recommend his skill set highly enough.

Last night he sent me a video clip of our latest shoot, which I want to share with you all. In between the music and editing, I think it is quite well done and I hope you enjoy watching as much as I enjoyed making.

http://alebeard.net/clips/Native.mp4

Gang signs are not funny Rain!!

Back when I was a baby kinkster and taking my tentative first steps to explore this amazing new world, I went to the only place I could think of as a resource-Myspace. I only wish that Fetlife existed back in the day, but nope. Myspace is what you had to work with. In short order, after some poking around in the darker corners of the world of Myspace, I found someone who would end up becoming my first Dom.

Richard was a good ol’ boy country music listening, pickup truck driving, Catholic police officer from Napa. I know, I know. I needed kink badly enough in my life that I was willing to overlook country music and pickup trucks. Richard was on the fast track to becoming the youngest gang detective in Napa and hung out with a hard drinking crew of fellow police officers. It is astounding just how much police officers drink. They were Bukowski level.

His biggest complaint was that he could not find a nice Republican conservative kinky girl. “All the kinky girls I can find are San Francisco liberal vegetarians with tattoos!” he would grumble. Yes, as it turns out, us kinksters tend to be more open-minded and liberal. Which leaves poor kinky Republicans having to grit their teeth around all of us vegetarians.

Coming from such wildly different worlds, the only thing we had in common was our mutual love of BDSM. I was his dirty little secret that he kept in the closet. (Literally. I did spend a lot of time tied up in his closet) This was fine in the beginning, but after half a year or so I got tired of being such a hidden part of his life. “Why don’t I ever get to meet your friends?” I would ask, “Are you ashamed of me of something?” Richard would shrug it off and tie me up some more. I was not happy with the situation, but the bondage and beatings were very distracting.

Then one night he called me up, completely plastered. “Heeeeeyyy girl, all my buddies are here and they want to meet you! Come on over!” he slurred, the fumes strong enough I could smell them through the phone line.

I shouldn’t of gone. But I did. I drove to the address Richard had given me and knocked on the door. I could hear the party raging behind the door.

When I walked into a room full of drunken police officers that specialized in gangs, they did a quick visual takedown on my liberal tattooed ass. Then one of them spoke up, “Why do you have a gang sign tattooed on your arm?”

Gang sign? What fucking gang sign? I didn’t have any…oh. That. Years ago, I had heard of a documentary on Mexican street gangs called “Mi Vida Loca”, aka my crazy life. Their sign was 3 dots in the shape of a triangle. My crazy life seemed fitting for how I chose to live life, and I had had my tattoo artist tattoo 3 dots behind my right elbow years ago and promptly forgotten about it. I had honestly forgotten I was rocking a gang sign on my arm. The dots were the size on a pencil tip and easily overlooked. Unless you are in a room of police officers trained to look for that sort of thing. It was not a good first meeting.

“Oh that? It is…err, a joke. Doesn’t mean anything” I replied nervously while covering the the back of my elbow with furtive fingers.

They were not amused. “Gangs are not a joking matter!” bellowed the drunken room of officers.

All the while Richard was slowly dying in the corner. Introducing his kinky liberal tattooed secret sub was not going as smoothly as he had hoped.

We broke up a few weeks later. I now date only liberals and still rock my joke gang sign tattoo. I can only hope he has found the conservative Republican girl of his dreams to do his dishes with a ballgag in her mouth, it will just never be me. And in retrospect, I probably didn’t really need to get the gang tattoo. Good thing I never told him about the 666 tattoo I have hidden in my hair over my left ear. I don’t think his heart could of handled it.

Puking on James Deen

This is the grin of a man that can handle some accidental puke...

This is the grin of a man that can handle some accidental puke…

Say what you want to about James Deen, (and there are people rather strongly camped out in both the pro and anti camps) there is no doubt that the man was put on this planet to fuck. He LOVES it. He is extremely good at it. He is youngest winner ever of the AVNs coveted “Male performer of the year” award, and justifiably so. He claims 5’8″, which I will give him and bring up only to make a point-when you are in a gangbang with 5 other guys and they have half a foot on height, 30 pounds of muscle and 10 years on you and you STILL are in charge and leading that whole gangbang? Then yes, you were put on this planet to fuck.

I had been aware of him for years, but never had the pleasure of the James Deen experience personally. Until the fateful day I was booked to do a scene with him and rounded out the day by throwing up on him as well as getting choked unconscious. Both courtesy of the Deen, naturally. He is a giver like that.

When I was asked to do a public scene with multiple other performers in front of a live audience with James as a co-star, I knew that my night was going to be memorable. I just didn’t know how memorable. The “warm up” scene was multiple blowjobs happening in front of the crowd, and I somehow ended up on my knees in from of James. He is both…substantial and has a, shall we say, vigorous, face fucking style. I was all good with having massive cock being repeatedly jammed deep down into my face hole-until I wasn’t. It happened so quickly I couldn’t even stop it or hold it back. One minute I am gamely hanging in and opening up my throat as much as I possibly could, the next minute James’s thigh is wearing my lunch. In front of 60 people.

It was in this minute I was about to find out why they keep chucking so many awards at James. He looked down, immediately ascertained the situation, and without slowing his pace in the slightest he pivoted his hips slightly to hide the mess and held one hand high above his head out of the range of camera, snapping his fingers at the nearest PA for a towel. When he realized that he couldn’t get the attention of a PA for a towel, he reached down and used my hair to wipe up his thigh, never slowing the pace of the blowjob. The whole thing-situation, assessment and containment, happened in under a minute, and he did it so flawlessly I am quite certain that the entire audience watching never even noticed what happened. Dude is a pro.

He finished up the evening by choking me unconscious while assfucking me. (To be fair, I had previously informed him of my love of breathplay) While looking me directly in the eyes, he throttled me with his hands until I passed right the fuck out. I came swimming back to the surface of consciousness in a roaring rush, the crowd forming back in front of me out of the darkness. He. was. still. assfucking. me. Passing out limply mid-sodomy is not a deal breaker for Mr. Deen, and let me assure you, there is no better way to regain consciousness then with a cock in your ass. He watched me come to, a mischievous grin dancing on his face. Yeah, ok, credit where credit is due James, you are phenomenal at the sexings. I had been throughly hit and repeatedly run over by the James Deen truck. And I loved every minute of it. Thank you.

Ok Rain, seriously, what is with all the vomit??

At this point I am probably fairly well-known for my….relaxed relationship with vomit.I get people on a regular basis that are rather squicked out by my proclivities. So I thought I would explain exactly what the fascination is for me.

I DON’T have a puke fetish. Puke is nasty & messy & you have to stop everything to clean it up.
I have a CONTROL fetish. The concept of controlling someone so utterly that you literally control their bodily functions makes me hot. The thought of so completely owning the back of someone’s throat that you can make them vomit, whether they want to or no….well that works for me on so many levels it isn’t even funny. Forcing someone to vomit is like making them squirt from their throat. In my book.Almost...
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So here are Rain’s tips on how to do successful vomit play:

1) Do it on an empty stomach. You want the *threat* of puke, actually getting a lapful of digested lunch is a boner killer.

2) Throw down massive amounts of towels. Lots of towels makes cleanup a breeze.

3) Drink a fair amount of fluids. I like apple juice or cranberry juice. It is sweet and not unpleasant coming back up.

4) Get an understanding partner that doesn’t judge.

5) Insert fingers, cock or dildo deep into the eager little mouthhole. Await results.

Is this all still too gross? Try vomit play in the shower! Get a nice warm shower going and start deep-throating your partner’s dick with vigorous enthusiasm until the inevitable happens. That shit washes right down the drain. No muss no fuss.

Hope these tips have helped. Go forth and let your freak flag fly and know that somewhere in a corner of your mind I am watching and I approve.

xox
Rain